BMJ » All Posts https://bhaadmeja.com/adda/forum/pyaar-aur-pyaz/feed/ Thu, 16 Apr 2026 23:04:35 +0000 https://bbpress.org/?v=2.6.14 en-US https://bhaadmeja.com/adda/topic/kya-ladakiyaan-shaadi-ke-baad-apane-boyfriend-ko-bhool-jaati-hain/#post-1048 <![CDATA[Kya Ladakiyaan Shaadi ke baad apane Boyfriend ko bhool jaati hain?]]> https://bhaadmeja.com/adda/topic/kya-ladakiyaan-shaadi-ke-baad-apane-boyfriend-ko-bhool-jaati-hain/#post-1048 Mon, 01 Sep 2025 14:40:06 +0000 ABHILASHA SHARMA Kya Ladakiyaan Shaadi ke baad apane Boyfriend ko bhool jaati hain?

Pehla pyaar, pehla heartbreak aur pehli baar ‘tum online the par reply kyu nahi kiya?’ waale screenshots – ye sab yaadein kisi ko nahi bhoolti.
Lekin sawaal ye hai: Shaadi ke baad ladkiyan apne boyfriend ko bhool jaati hain ya secretly yaad rakhti hain?

Research bolti hai – psychology ke mutaabiq, insaan apne past relationships ko completely delete nahi karta. Brain ki memory folder me wo hamesha saved rehti hai (like ek old WhatsApp backup 😂).
Emotional point of view – kuch log kehte hain ki shaadi ke naye responsibilities aur naye rishton me purane yaadon ka impact kam ho jata hai.
Funny angle – ho sakta hai ki ladkiyan toh bhool bhi jaayein… par ladke 10 saal baad bhi gaana gaate milte hain – “Yaad aa rahi hai…”

Aapko kay lagta hai shaadi ke baad pyaar ka ‘Control + Alt + Delete’ ho jaata hai?

]]> https://bhaadmeja.com/adda/topic/shaadi-arrange-karni-chahiye-ya-love-se-chalti-hai-zyada/#post-1042 <![CDATA[Reply To: Shaadi arrange karni chahiye ya love se chalti hai zyada?]]> https://bhaadmeja.com/adda/topic/shaadi-arrange-karni-chahiye-ya-love-se-chalti-hai-zyada/#post-1042 Sat, 30 Aug 2025 16:52:36 +0000 Ramanand Sharma Mere ek dost ne arrange marriage ki thi. Ladki ko pehli baar dekha hi mandap mein. Usne bola, ‘Bhai, exam paper dekhne se pehle hi main answer sheet submit kar raha hoon.’
Dusre dost ne love marriage ki… shaadi ke 6 mahine baad bola, ‘Bhai, lagta hai main wrong syllabus padh ke exam likh aaya.’

]]> https://bhaadmeja.com/adda/topic/shaadi-arrange-karni-chahiye-ya-love-se-chalti-hai-zyada/#post-1037 <![CDATA[Shaadi arrange karni chahiye ya love se chalti hai zyada?]]> https://bhaadmeja.com/adda/topic/shaadi-arrange-karni-chahiye-ya-love-se-chalti-hai-zyada/#post-1037 Sat, 30 Aug 2025 16:45:01 +0000 ABHILASHA SHARMA Shaadi arrange karni chahiye ya love se chalti hai zyada

Shaadi arrange karni chahiye ya love se chalti hai zyada?

Kuch log kehte hain pyaar blind hota hai, aur kuch log kehte hain parents ki choice hi safest hoti hai.
Arrange marriage = gharwaalon ka HR department, jahan shortlist, interview aur final selection hota hai.
Love marriage = apna startup, jisme risk bhi apna, reward bhi apna.
Par asli sawal ye hai — zyada lambi race ka ghoda kaunsa hai?
Kya rishtedaari waale laddu arrange se meethay lagte hain ya love marriage ke laddoo mein hi asli swaad hai?
Apne experiences, kahaniyaan aur gyaan share karo — forum abhi garam hai

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